Counselor's Corner

Counselor's Corner

Character Counts Calendar 2017-18

 September   Responsibility
 October       Personal Safety
November     Citizenship
December     Caring 
January        Fairness 
February      Trustworthiness
March           Respect 
April             Respect 
May              Careers 
 
Mrs. Links' Counseling Schedule 
Monday   All Day 
Wednesday  All Day  

Age Appropriate Conversations

AGE APPROPRIATE CONVERSATIONS

It can seem daunting to talk to young children about personal safety and asking for help if they need it, but starting the conversation doesn’t have to be a complex or overwhelming. The JWRC has created a resource reviewing how to talk to your kids about safety in a way that is appropriate for their age, and goes over what can be taught, challenges at the particular age, how to have the conversation, and what you can say to start the conversation. You can find the complete information on their website, but a few teachable items include:

Teach your toddler:

Their name and guardian’s name

Stay within sight

Proper names for body parts and how private parts are different than the rest of their body

Teach your preschooler:

How to use 911– your child should know their address, phone number and be able to describe the emergency

Check first before going anywhere or getting into a car

Say “no!” to uncomfortable or confusing touch

Teach your elementary school child:

Family password – in case someone is sent to pick up child

Create a list of five trusted adults to call about any problem

Buddy system – safer and more fun to stay with a friend

Teach your middle/junior high schooler:

Don’t put personal or emotional information online

Difference between a mentor vs. relationship

Cell phone (texting) guidelines – think before you send

Teach your high schooler:

Review cell phone and internet expectations

The importance of respecting others boundaries

Listen to your gut instinct – leave situations or people that feel wrong


FIVE TRUSTED ADULTS

Think of the trusted adults that are in your child’s life – people they can go talk to if they’re feeling uncomfortable, something’s happened to them, or they’re working through something they may not want to talk to you about at the moment. This is something they can be taught in elementary school by talking to them about which adults they know and trust, and it’s important to have an up to date when a child is middle school/junior high age so your child still has a good relationship with these adults are and is hearing positive messages from them. Be aware of who is on that list, and be supportive if the list does not include you.

THE ‘WHAT IF’ GAME

By talking through hypothetical scenarios with your child, you can get some insight into how they would handle potentially dangerous situations, and also have the opportunity to coach them on what to do without having to do it in a lecture format.

Naomi Hupton, who spoke at PHS in 2014 on child abuse and neglect, goes through these scenarios with her own children.

“So you’re at Target, and you say to your young child, ‘what would you do if mommy lost you right now?” she said. “And when I’d first ask my children, they’d say they would find a policeman. But police aren’t typically in Target – so you can teach them what they should do.”

Other suggested ‘what if’ questions to ask your child include:

What would you do if your brother’s friend gave you $20, but said to keep it a secret?

What would you do if your neighbor offered you a ride home so you don’t have to walk?

What would you do if you told an adult about something that made you feel afraid, but they didn’t believe you?


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